Cigar Lounge Etiquette 

A cigar lounge is one of the most welcoming spaces you can step into. For many, it feels almost sacred—a place of comfort, connection, and respect. In my travels from Pittsburgh to Panama to Paris, I’ve never had a bad experience inside a cigar lounge. These spaces transcend race, gender, nationality, beliefs, and religion. They are sanctuaries where people come to relax, disconnect from stress, and indulge in the leaf.

If you’re new to cigar lounges, it’s natural to feel a bit intimidated at first. But truly, all it takes is a smile—you’ll often find yourself welcomed with open arms. To help you make the most of your experience, here are a few best practices every cigar enthusiast should know:

 
Etiquette for Enjoying the Lounge

Support the lounge: Buy something, even if you don’t plan to smoke it there.

Respect the cutting fee: Many lounges charge this if you bring your own cigars.

Never ask to borrow or share a cigar.

Honor private spaces: Don’t enter members-only areas unless invited.

Be respectful of everyone—lounges thrive on mutual courtesy.

Respect personal preferences: Don’t criticize another person’s cigar choice, cutting style, or smoking pace.

Mind your ash: Use the “gentleman’s drop.” Never let ash fall on tables or floors.

Keep conversation light: Avoid politics and religion—lounges are safe spaces.

Let your cigar rest naturally: Don’t snub it out when finished.

Clean up after yourself: Trash belongs in the bin, not the ashtray. Leave the space better than you found it.

 
Good Habits to Remember

Don’t touch a cigar with your nose before purchasing it.

Don’t put a cigar in your mouth before cutting it.

Don’t blow smoke directly into someone’s face.

Don’t force conversation—read the room.

Don’t put your feet on the furniture.

Don’t sneak alcohol into a lounge. If it’s BYOB, share generously—even with strangers.

Always check for posted house rules and follow them.

 
Final Thought
Cigar lounges are built on respect, relaxation, and camaraderie. If you carry yourself with courtesy, support the lounge, and treat others kindly, you’ll always find yourself at home—no matter where in the world you are.